I've put myself in your shoes. You're still wrong
· β 457 words politics · βοΈ Peter Hiltz
A lot of times I find myself telling people that I don’t disagree with them BUT… Everyone’s ears and brain immediately shut down at the word “But”. I know it, and still can’t help myself. The word “AND"works much better. The point that I am often trying to make is asking the person whether they are actually trying to accomplish something or just rant.
To change a situation, you either need enough force to override the other side or you need to change minds on the other side.